At 9 and 10, defense is two builds: a READY position that feels springy instead of scared (low, wide, weight forward, platform-ready hands apart), and fear-free digging: the discovery that a ball coming AT you is a gift you bounce up, not a threat you dodge. Soft balls and friendly speeds are the entire method; one stinging ball can undo a month of bravery.
This session runs about 45 minutes with a volley-lite or soft ball and a parent tossing and gently spiking (a firm overhand throw does the job at this age). Everything bounces UP as the only target: high middle balls are perfect defense right now, and control refinements wait their turn. The session's soundtrack is celebration, because digging is the sport's bravest skill and bravery compounds.
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Built around their game, their goals, and what they’re working on.
Soft balls, friendly speeds, and instant softening after any flinch: bravery is banked in deposits and destroyed by overdrafts. A volley-lite ball thrown kindly builds the it-came-at-me-and-I-made-a-rainbow discovery, and the pace climbs only as fast as the eyes stay open.
HIGH and in the middle: a ball sent generously up that anyone could play next. Placement refinements belong to later bands; height is control's first draft, and celebrating rainbows builds the platform habits everything later refines.
As optional celebrated play on grass (a lunge, a knee drop for a far ball), never as demanded technique: formal dive and sprawl mechanics belong to club coaches on proper floors. The optional fun version keeps the fearlessness growing without the floor burns.