At 7 and 8, softball throwing practice is playing catch with three secrets smuggled in: a fingers-across-the-seams grip (three fingers is right on the 11-inch ball for small hands), the sideways turn with the glove shoulder pointing at the target, and the step with the opposite foot. Those three, planted now, prevent the push-dart throw that otherwise lingers for years.
Thirty minutes, two gloves, an 11-inch or softer training ball, and short distances (twenty to thirty feet) so good mechanics can reach. The bigger ball is why the grip gets extra patience here: small hands need the three-finger spread, and squeezing it like a grapefruit is the habit to gently coach away. Your easy chest-high returns are half the session.
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Built around their game, their goals, and what they’re working on.
It is big for them, which is exactly why the three-finger grip is standard in softball (many college players keep it forever). Soft training balls in the same size are a great bridge. The thing to prevent is the palm-squeeze, which turns every throw into a shot-put.
Twenty to thirty feet: close enough for the full pattern to reach with good form. Stretch the gap only as the pretty throw keeps reaching. Distance before technique is how push-darts get built, in softball exactly like everywhere else.
A relaxed thirty-minute catch session is well within a healthy day. End early when form dissolves or the arm complains; any actual pain means stop and rest. The habits are the product here, not the volume.