Club lacrosse tryouts run in two windows: a summer window, usually late in the summer after the school season ends, and a fall window for programs that run a fall season or reload their rosters. Most clubs field one team per age group, sometimes an A and a B, and they are not evaluating sixty kids the way a school does. They are looking at thirty to forty players for eighteen to twenty-two spots, and a lot of those spots are already spoken for by returning players. Your kid is trying out for the open ones.
That changes the math. A club coach with two returning goalies and four returning attackers is not looking for a fifth attacker no matter how good the kid is. They are looking for a midfielder who can run, a long pole who can clear, a faceoff kid in the boys’ game, or someone who can win draws in the girls’ game. Finding out what a club needs before tryouts is not gamesmanship; it is the single most useful question a parent can ask.
The plan below assumes a kid who has played at least one organized season, has a wall and a few balls, and has about four weeks. It is built to be run alone or with one partner. If your kid has less time, run weeks three and four. If they have more, repeat week two.
Club coaches watch the same things a school coach watches, but they watch them at speed and they watch them at a position. Can the kid catch in traffic with either hand, do they go through ground balls with a body in the way, do they ride hard when the ball turns over, and do they take a correction and fix it the next rep. A club coach has usually seen a hundred kids with a good strong hand. The ones who get an offer are the ones who can catch a bad pass with the weak hand and keep running.
Position matters more here than anywhere before it. A midfielder who cannot play defense will not make a club team no matter how many goals they score, because club midfielders play both ends. A defender who cannot throw a clearing pass forty yards on the run is a liability. A goalie is evaluated on outlet passes and communication almost as much as saves. Ask what position the club is evaluating your kid at and prepare for that job, not for the highlight version of it.
In the boys’ game, some clubs at older age groups play with checking allowed, and the tryout scrimmage will show it. Coaches want kids who play defense with footwork and stick position first and use their body legally and under control; nobody is impressed by a kid looking for hits. In the girls’ game, coaches are watching for kids who can check cleanly without fouling and who stay out of the shooting space. None of this is built at home. No checking or body-contact drills in the backyard, at any age.
Most club tryouts are one or two sessions of ninety minutes to two hours: a stick check, line drills at pace, position-specific work (faceoffs or draws off to the side, goalies with a coach, poles on clearing), then a lot of scrimmage. Offers come by email within a few days to a week, and they usually come with a deadline of a few days and a deposit request. Some clubs make offers on the field the same day to kids they are sure about. If your kid does not get an offer, most clubs will hold a spot on a waitlist or a B team, and it is fair to ask where they stand.
The fee is the conversation to have before tryouts, not after the offer. A club season commonly runs somewhere in the range of $1,500 to $4,000 for the season itself, and that number often excludes uniforms, tournament travel, hotels, and the fall or winter sessions. Tournament travel can add several hundred dollars per weekend depending on how far the club travels. Ask for the all-in number, and ask specifically what happens if your kid cannot attend one of the tournaments. Clubs that answer that question clearly are usually the ones that are organized in every other way.
The travel reality is worth saying out loud with your kid before the offer arrives: a club season is four to six tournament weekends, most of them out of town, on top of practice two or three nights a week. Some kids want that. Some kids want lacrosse and also want their summer. Both are fine, and it is much easier to decide that now than with a deposit deadline in the inbox.
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Their position, their team, what they’re working on, and what the next few weeks actually look like. Two minutes, nothing to sign up for.
Commonly somewhere in the range of $1,500 to $4,000 for the season fee, and that often excludes uniforms, tournament fees, and travel, which can add several hundred dollars per weekend. Ask for the all-in number before tryouts and ask what happens if your kid misses a tournament.
Most clubs run a summer window after the school season ends and a fall window for programs that run a fall season. Many post dates on their site in late spring. If a club you are interested in has already tried out, email and ask about a supplemental tryout or a waitlist; rosters change more than people think.
Ask the coach for one specific thing to work on and whether there is a B team, a waitlist, or a fall session. Then keep playing: rec, town league, a different club. Plenty of kids make the roster the next window because they came back visibly better at the thing the coach named.
It depends on the age group and the league the club plays in; many youth levels limit or ban body checking, and older age groups allow it under the rules. Ask the club directly. Either way, defense is taught and evaluated on footwork and stick position first, and no contact drills belong at home.